I'm 18 years old and my boyfriend is 20 years old and he has such a past. Society sees it that way, but not. Then they learn and grow well, some don't. Don't regret about your past. It sounds like he does view sex as meaningful rather than just physical as he hasn't had one night stands etc so look at that in a positive way.
Never been in the same boat unfortunately since I've never had a gf. I love him i truly do we have been together a year and i love him with all my heart and he loves me if i wanted a watermelon from mexico he would get it for me. If you are not, well too bad for you. U know how many men who are looking for a good woman n he had one but threw u away for some nonsense. He has the nerve to imply that u not good enough because u r not a virgin but he is. She has already promised to be a very good and faithful wife of me and will always put me and our family on top of her mind and will love me like no one else in this world can.
So try to look past it. Technically, he did sleep with her. If you do want to and have your doubts ask him to go get checked for stds and as a sign of good faith have your self checked as well. I almost had sex with him. Waiting till marriage is the one thing that I can offer to my husband and tell him that I waited for him because he is the one. I get that this issue is very important for u.
They say they always remember the first but i despise her and i feel disgusted whenever i think of it or her. I just don't know to react to the fact. Cyberbullying and harassment will not be tolerated on this forum. I shouted, I threw things, I refused to touch him. It's not criticism, it's just telling you, that you worry over nothing.
As a man, I could never have taken a woman seriously as a lifelong partner if she were not a virgin before I met her. Your boyfriend sounds like a wonderful young man who has sinned, repented and seeks to go on with his life. On the other hand, if you recognize that you are a sinner as well and you have no right to demand perfection from a husband because you cannot be a perfect wife, then choose to let go of his sin and bury it. The last time he had sex with her was about 2 years ago. He does not love you.
I'm really hurt by the fact. Unfortunately, especially for young men, sexual temptation is very strong. I know exactly how you feel me and my bf have a 6 year age difference and he's been with pletely girls and ive even found convos from them, it sickens me cus i lost my virginity to him and i regret that. Nikaah Mubaarak wrote: there is a way to know if a guy is a virgin. While I like being the one to teach him I would so much rather learn together. Men are more likely to just consider it for the physical, and girls tend to attach emotions to it. If he really loves you he'll be the one if you also love him.
A reader, anonymous, writes 21 April 2009 : i am very very very very very bothered by the same thing. If you do want to and have your doubts ask him to go get checked for stds and as a sign of good faith have your self checked as well. The sex was purely out of curiosity and physical pleasure, and he didn't become more attached to her at all. I'm a virgin, he's not and I found it out after about 1 month into our relationship. If I was in his shoes, I'd feel like nothing I do is ever good enough and that I'm not good enough, so it's pointless. We spent a lot of happy moments until he discovered that I am not a virgin.
For future references I would hope people are not sp quick to judge and understand another person's p. Do you have some reason to think he would lie to you? He said his biggest fear is that whoever he marries will be thinking about how he was intimate with someone else and that he has failed her before he even began. Hugs, Kelly Thanks for the advice, Kelly. Give yourself a chance, believe me. His virginity won't love you but his love that he have 4 u its matters. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, And you are not in this world to live up to mine. The bottom line is, men and women are fundamentally different.
The contributors are not licensed professionals so if your problem transcends beyond the scope of this forum, you need to seek out those who are specialized in those fields. A female reader, , writes 6 July 2010 : hello everyone! He says he's fine with waiting until we're married, but that's not the point. Good luck I absolutely agree. He didn't even want to have sex with her, she wanted to have sex with him. He said it wasn't very much fun, he didn't even come. I pray that he doesn't find one because he isn't deserving.