But is he a mind reader? I was goofing around on it one day because it was a cool new thing, and an email popped up. The issue goes both ways, I know way too many men who expect their wives to go to work all day and help pay bills, and still expect them to run all the errands, do all the cleaning, and cooking, and still take care of the children. He can lend you some money then maybe decide not to collect it back when you pay up. Before you invest more — of yourself or your money. I am well in the positive by the definition of a millionaire, I am one. Just last week, I found a job that was good pay, and I thought he would be interested in, so I text it to him.
He convinced work to give him an advance…. I have purchased a car put him down on the loan. I have the same problem. If they did all the cooking and cleaning, basically any domestic work like a stay at home wife would do then they could skate on the rent. Even married couples need to be financially independent and responsible for their own selves. I knew this was temporary.
Be prepared for the worst. He will tell you his problems once he is ready. If I am engaged, I probably would as well. How do I ask him to stop asking me to lend him money for good? I just thought I read it incorrectly. If he knows about the trouble, and he's a good man and loves his girlfriend and is able to help, he's going to offer the help, unsolicited. And maybe one of these alternatives is true: 1.
Granted, some men will provide a blue-collar living and others a more professional salary. What ever happened to loyalty and working hard at relationships? Bravo for your good career! Surprise party for his mom? Now that I have a good nest egg — I am restarting my life — new clients, looking for a rental apartment until my credit cleans itself up — and trying to put what I learned in the last decade or so about myself to the test. The now-ex-boyfriend can feel it. He hasn't done anything yet. I see that in men. October 9, 2010, 2:08 pm I have to add to my original question. They liked him when we were happy and in an equal relationship but after all he's put me through, they think I would be happier without him.
My fellow women take care coz some guys are gold diggers and they will dig money from you in the name of love. Not sure if I'd want to keep doing this if she was going to grad school right away. We're a team and we're helping each other reach that next step in our careers and personal goals. I think your friend should ask him. He has unstable work, and last month, just before losing his job, he broke up with me. He watched state trek all day and bought lots of books and classical music.
We are a long distance couple, different countries different cultures. One week after he finished university, he left, and she found out he was engaged to another girl, and he married her. He will feel overcome with anger. It can lead to resentment if things don't go well between you. He might decide he want to give it to her. I wouldn't mind helping her out with a tank of gas and paying for food every now and then, but would not want her to depend on that. It really wouldn't make any difference, as far as my bank account is concerned.
I also believe once you start this trend you wont stop-after all love cant be bought. I thought you made excellent points, Selena. So does this mean that women should artificially hold themselves back in the workplace to create the false appearance of male domination? I am an attractive female and I always get asked why Im still single. But you should still be helping, rather than carrying the whole load. Also, why were there quotes around open? Until about 10 days ago, I thought our relationship was starting to cement itself.
Better to say no and lose him than say yes, lend your boyfriend money, and go into financial debt or lose your future. He has still to recover. Smart women cant be expected to match themselves with lazy, unmotivated guys. While dealing with all of this, she is also trying to make a relationship work, one that she is about seven months into. And now,there is a high possibility of increasing my scholarship amount, he is aiming for that he keeps on asking me when will it happen he even started making plans of what to do with it, he said he will invest the money.